THConversation

Meta Lies and Mental Health Myths

Summer’s heating up and so is this episode—stay to the end for an announcement that’ll change your weekly routine 👀
I spill all about my call with Meta and how their "support" is basically hot air and high-key flirting to keep creators glued to the app. 
Also… I accidentally Snapchatted a girl who worked for me for two days. The same girl who text-quit via text after her microwave lunch exploded.  💥
We also get into the delusions haters are inventing online lately (they're reaching so hard it’s giving yoga class), and why my current salon team is chef’s kiss—no dirty dishes, no chaos, just good hair and good vibes.
In today’s therapy corner: apparently some folks think my fave form of trauma healing includes electric shocks?? 😂 I clear that up real quick and talk about my actual journey into NLP and hypnosis coaching—it’s nothing like what you’re picturing.
Plus: Disney remakes, boys in pedicure chairs, and why our government seems allergic to helping kids.
Press play for drama, laughs, and maybe a few uncomfortable truths.

I Wasn't Left. I Was Launched. Reframing Abandonment

What happens when you start unpacking the beliefs your family handed you — along with the vodka?
In this raw episode, I talk about my complicated relationship with drinking, my abandonment as a baby, and the emotional blueprint passed down through my Jewish and Irish roots.
I explore the wild question: if I had different parents, would I just be fucked up in a different way? This is about generational trauma, breaking cycles, and reminding ourselves — just because it runs in the family doesn’t mean it needs to keep running you.
I was abandoned as a baby. My dad’s family didn’t seem too bothered. Add in a mix of Irish chaos and Jewish guilt, and you’ve got a cocktail of generational dysfunction.
In this episode, I get into my relationship with drinking, my family’s history, and the deep-seated limiting beliefs I inherited — ones I’ve spent years trying to unlearn. I’ve wondered what I’d be like if I were raised by alternate parents in some other universe. Would I still be fucked up? Probably.
But maybe in a cuter outfit. I truly believe I’m on the best timeline now… but it doesn’t erase how formative our early years are. So let’s talk about it. And maybe — just maybe — stop beating the shit out of our kids, emotionally or otherwise.

This Isn’t Love… It’s a Trauma Response

This episode is a wild ride through the reality of running a modern hair salon—with plenty of laughs, lessons, and unexpected turns.
Laura and the crew unpack a recent three-star review from a client whose hair was too damaged for color, explore the disconnect between client expectations and professional boundaries, and call out the toxic entitlement that salon owners deal with daily (spoiler: it’s usually boomers, but not always).
From Yelp drama to pets being buried mafia-style in concrete, and even naming shelter animals after Transformers, this episode blends industry tea with raw, real-life stories. It's part hair talk, part animal rescue chaos, and totally unfiltered.
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Bullies, Boundaries & Becoming That B*tch

Ever felt like you're outgrowing people but still trying to keep the peace?
This episode unpacks the silent power of boundaries, how to handle subtle (and not-so-subtle) bullies, and what happens when you stop shrinking yourself to fit into rooms you’ve outgrown.
We’re talking real-life stories, emotional resilience, and the kind of growth that feels both scary and freeing. Sometimes people just won't let go, and we dissect why people are addicted to drama and the stories they make up in their heads.
You’ll laugh, you’ll get chills, and you might just block someone after listening.
 
✨ It's not about being mean—it's about being done.
 
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Cookies, Cults, and Client Firings

In this episode, we unpack the very important debate: pink jobs vs blue jobs — and who’s actually winning the podcast war, men or women?
We get into the Alabama Barker vs Bhad Bhabie beef (yes, we have opinions), and ask the tough questions like: why do kids in private school uniforms keep trying to convert me or poison me with home-baked cookies at the salon?
Also: Chris could never get angry, but Kelly? I can absolutely see her throwing hands in a parking lot.
We talk about the “no soliciting” sign that no one reads, what it’s like to grow up in a trap house, and why I fully wait for my team to leave the salon parking lot before I do (no, I’m not paranoid, it’s safety. Ok maybe a little paranoid).
Plus: shake plates, anxiety hacks, tattooed heretics, and the fever dream that ended with me firing a client.
THConversation is where humor, heart, and healing collide — and this episode is a ride. Hit play, because there’s so much more where that came from. 🖤

Best Friends Breakup & Other Plot Twists

This week, I’m sharing all the wild, unexpected moments that made the last few weeks a rollercoaster—tech glitches, travel chaos, mystery packages, and the gut-punch of my best friend breaking up with me. Yeah, it’s been *a lot*.
I take you from the peaceful beaches of Costa Rica (monkey sightings included) to LA’s most dog-friendly creative space, where I helped shape the future of hair education. Plus, a little peek into the kind of things you can casually grab at a Latin American pharmacy… you're not ready.
We also get into family history—how Sean and I are just third-gen Americans, why my ancestors took one look at NYC and said “no thanks,” and what that all means now.
And of course, I spill a little salon tea because… drama waits for no one.
If you love a mix of storytelling, travel, reflection, and real life unfiltered, this episode’s for you. Let’s get into it.
 

Birthday Trips, Spooky Trips, and Hotel Horror!

Hey there, friend! Have you ever thought of mixing a little spooky with your vacation planning? We sure did, and it made for a birthday adventure like no other! Join us as we chat about our plans to explore Stephen King territory and the hilarious outcomes of opting out of some less-than-clean "haunted" hotels. Spoiler alert: no bed bugs for us!
This week is also my birthday week! We talk about how I get to spend it in Costa Rica! With new and old friends at a Hair Retreat I get to teach at!! 
We get hands-on with some blood and gore – but don’t worry, it's all in the name of fun special effects! Hear about my beauty school days and how it led to creating some of the coolest Halloween house setups ever, complete with chainsaws and full-size candy bars.
Finally, meet Frank! Our little Chihuahua with a big personality who literally rolled into our lives. We dive into this new chapter of doggie parenting and all the adorableness that comes with it. Enjoy the chaos with us and maybe, just maybe, you'll find yourself planning your own spooky escapade with your furry sidekick!

Meet Frankenstein, Thrown from a Car, Right Into my Heart

Hey there! Get ready to dive into a fun episode where we introduce you to our new wacky character, Frankenstein, the tricolored chocolate Chihuahua. This little guy’s journey from being thrown out of a moving car to finding a loving home with us is as touching as it is hilarious. He might be a misunderstood monster, but all he wants is some love. Oh, and a bunch of quirky nicknames—Frankie, Frank the Tank, you name it!
But that's not all! We also reminisce about the wild days back in the punk scenes of New Jersey, dealing with crackheads, and our favorite concert spots that made our youth one heck of an adventure. Plus, we dabble into the deep-end musings about NASA, conspiracy theories, and even take sides on the whole moon landing debacle. Spoiler alert: it gets a little wild.
Join us for some laughs, some memories, and maybe even a little debate. Whether you want to chuckle at Frankie's latest antics or ponder over cosmic mysteries, we've got something for everyone in this episode!

Navigating Girl World & Fever Dreams

Ever wondered about the unspoken rules of *girl world* and the fine art of throwing shade—like Lady Gaga did to Caitlyn Jenner?
This episode is full of stories you *need* to hear. From an SPF fail in Mexico that left me questioning my life choices to the weird social dynamics of snubbing and the passive-aggressive mind games we all *pretend* not to play, we’re getting into it.  
We’re also talking fever dream moments, unexpected celebrity run-ins, and the absolute *struggle* of picking the perfect movie night flick. It’s real, it’s ridiculous, and it’s basically like catching up with your funniest friend over coffee (or whatever overpriced drink your barista is pushing this week). Tune in—you don’t want to miss this one!
And if you haven't seen me, its because I changed baristas.

The Snowmageddon: Me vs CHS Blizzard of 25

Hey there, friends! In this episode, we kick things off with some wild stories about snowstorms and the thrill (or terror) of driving through them. Ever tried doing donuts in a snowbank? It’s a lot of fun, unless you hate snow, in which case, it's a bit of a nightmare, right?
We also chat about an eye-opening experience in Vegas where a sphere took us on an unexpected ride through space and religious propaganda. Spoilers here, but there were some wild twists and turns, literally and metaphorically.
Oh, and we do our social media news round up, talk about my week in Las Vegas with the beauty brand I work for; behind the scenes and what I learned. Sprinkle in some tidbits about new trends, global fashion, and a touch of hypnotism that almost had me converting to a new 'religion'.
Buckle up, because this episode is as unpredictable as a winter storm!